Happy Friday, family..As you hopefully read,Karen and I waited for a couple of hours Wednesday at the hospital. They finally brought her back to the prep area,where I helped her with putting the gown on. After that happened,the surgeon called and said he was stuck in an emergency surgery,and we’d have to come back Friday.
I saw the despair in my beautiful wife’s face,but I knew in my heart if I got upset, we’d both become ill from the stress. I looked at her,put my hands on her face,and and said “Bear,let’s look at it like this…Maybe someone’s life was saved today because he was in the operating room and not here” That did calm us both down. However, Karen’s life is in jeopardy as well,but this event was out of our control.
So many events and circumstances have not gone in our favor. They say luck favors the prepared. Right now I’m not sure if that’s true. I’ve had to change course and have alternate solutions to so many hardships that arise because of things we’re promised that never seem to come true,or take longer than originally promised. I fight back,I chase answers,I advocate,I exhaust every single resource and still seem to never have anything get solved without heartache.
We would’ve given up a long time ago. Your help has kept us going. Our desire for a peaceful and happy life keeps me going. I don’t sleep much,but I don’t care. I need more help than what I ask for,but I do everything to solve it myself.
So,today will be the surgery. However,due to the possible housing opportunity that awaits us being delayed,I am asking once again for a small amount of help to get us through until next week. Karen’s fear of not having enough to survive is lessening her capacity to achieve health. We should be out of the hotel soon,or she won’t be placed on the transplant list. I’m asking you again to please donate any amount you can afford today so I can help us reach our goal of independence,which is a necessary component to keep my wife alive. With luck,we’ll be watching the show tonight with you. I’ll post when surgery is over.
We treasure you,
Brian
PAYPAL – bn11473@gmail.com or Brian Nearey
CASHAPP – $BFN73
VENMO KAREN-NEAREY-1
or the GoFundMe on my pinned X post, but this moment we need a little more direct assistance. Thank you so much
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